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Top 30 Fearing Love Quotes

Fearing Love Quotes

This post contains some of the best fearing love quotes.

What Is Fear of Love?

Fear of love, also known as philophobia, is a psychological condition characterized by an intense fear, dread or aversion towards falling in love or being in a romantic relationship.

People with philophobia have an irrational fear of emotional attachment, vulnerability and intimacy with another person.

Symptoms of philophobia include anxiety, panic attacks, avoidance behavior, difficulty expressing emotions, and even physical symptoms such as nausea and trembling when confronted with the possibility of a romantic relationship.

This fear may be due to past traumatic experiences, such as abandonment, rejection, or abuse, or it may be a result of social conditioning, cultural beliefs and personal values.

Fearing Love Quotes

1. “All the things that people do in order to show that they don’t need anybody… meanwhile, all they really want to do is say, “Please keep me.” We all want to be kept. The problem is we are too afraid to let anyone know about it. What are these fragile things in our hearts that have so much fear of being broken?” ― C. JoyBell C.

2. “Although we want to be close with others, we maintain a distance so we won’t be hurt.” ― Yong Kang Chan

3. “Do not be afraid of love or the course it will take. There is no certainty in life. Choose love first and choose love last and it will give you more than you ever give it.” ― Donna Goddard

4. “Don’t be scared to love again, not everyone is your ex.” – Unknown

5. “You’re not afraid to love you’re just afraid of not being loved.” – Unknown

6. “I’m scared to love you…but I’m even more scared of walking away.” – Unknown

7. “The women with the highest walls, have the deepest love.” – R.H. Sin

8. “She didn’t know who would leave or stay, so she pushed them all away.” – Unknown

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Fearing Love Quotes

9. “I’m not afraid to fall in love. I’m afraid to fall for the wrong person again.” – Unknown

10. “Isn’t that what love is? Being scared, then being brave, because of that one person?” – Unknown

11. “So many people are scared of being hurt that they close themselves off from being loved.” – Unknown

12. “I’m so afraid of losing something I love, that I refuse to love anything.”- Jonathan Safran Foer

13. “We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”- Eleanor Roosevelt

14. “Love casts out fear, but we have to get over the fear in order to get close enough to love them.”- Dorothy Day

15. “The fear to love reaches sometimes the depth of a panic, resembles sometimes the fear to die.”- Theodor Reik

16. “The choice that frees or imprisons us is the choice of love or fear. Love liberates. Fear imprisons.”- Gary Zukav

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Fearing Love Quotes

17. “If someone broke your heart it doesn’t mean you should build a wall around it and quit loving. Redirect your love.”- Rick Warren

18. “If we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss, then our lives will be empty, our loss greater.” – Unknown

19. “Fear is the great enemy of intimacy. Fear makes us run away from each other or cling to each other but does not create true intimacy.”- Henri Nouwen

20. “Those who are scared to love will eventually find the person that will make them rethink it.” – Unknown

21. “I have been wondering how to get over that feeling of being scared to love, now I know why.” – Unknown

22. “I am still getting used to the feeling of being in love so I’m still a bit more than scared to love.” – Unknown

23. “To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.” – Bertrand Russell

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24. “I’m not scared of commitment, I’m scared of putting my all into someone and ending up with nothing again.” – Unknown

25. “She wasn’t sure which scared her more, the fact that he wanted to explore her depths and understand her…or the fact she was willing to let him.” – Unknown

26. “The opposite of love is not hate. It is fear.”- Gary Zukav

Fearing Love Quotes

27. “Don’t fear getting hurt, fear never knowing how good love can really be.” – Unknown

28. “Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here.”- Marianne Williamson

29. “Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.”- Merle Shain

30. “Those who love to be feared fear to be loved, and they themselves are more afraid than anyone, for whereas other men fear only them, they fear everyone.”- St. Francis de Sales

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How to Overcome Fear Of Love And Intimacy?

The fear of love and intimacy can be challenging to overcome, but it is possible.

Here are some practical tips that may help:

1. Recognize your fear: Acknowledge that you have a fear of love and intimacy. This is the first step towards overcoming it.

2. Identify the root cause: Try to understand the root cause of your fear. It could be past experiences, childhood trauma or insecurity.

3. Challenge negative beliefs: Identify any negative beliefs you may have about love and intimacy and challenge them.

For example, if you believe that love always ends in heartbreak, challenge that belief by looking at successful relationships around you.

4. Practice self-compassion: Be gentle and kind to yourself.

Self-compassion entails being understanding and compassionate towards oneself for one’s failures and shortcomings.

5. Take small steps: Start by taking small steps towards intimacy and vulnerability.

For example, share your feelings with someone you trust or join a support group.

6. Seek professional help: If your fear is affecting your daily life, seek professional help from a therapist or counselor.

They can provide you with tools and strategies to overcome your fear.

Remember, overcoming a fear of love and intimacy takes time and patience. Be patient with yourself and practice self-care along the way.

By Hadiah

Hadiah is a counselor who is passionate about supporting individuals on their journey towards mental well-being. Hadiah not only writes insightful articles on various mental health topics but also creates engaging and practical mental health worksheets.

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