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Is My Boyfriend A Psychopath Quiz

Is My Boyfriend A Psychopath Quiz

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Who Is The Psychopath?

Sociopathy and psychopathy are both unofficial terms that describe someone with antisocial personality disorder.

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-5-TR) describes Antisocial Personality Disorder as “A pervasive pattern of disregard for and violation of the rights of others, occurring since age 15 years, as indicated by three (or more) of the following:

1. Failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors, as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest.

2. Deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure.

3. Impulsivity or failure to plan ahead.

4. Irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults.

5. Reckless disregard for safety of self or others.

6. Consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations.

7. Lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.”

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Sociopath vs. Psychopath: What’s The Difference?

Some experts see psychopaths as more “cold-hearted” and calculating than sociopaths.

A psychopath doesn’t have a conscience. A sociopath has a conscience, but it’s weak and both lack empathy.

Recent research even suggests that a psychopath’s brain does work like other people’s.

For example, when most people see blood or violence in a movie, they experience physical changes, such as increased heart rate or shallow breathing or sweaty palms.

A psychopath, however, has the opposite reaction. He gets calmer, which is one of the main reasons they seem fearless and engage in risky behavior. (source)

Related: How to Deal With A Sociopath? 21 Clear Traits of A Sociopath You Need to Watch Out For

Is My Boyfriend A Psychopath Quiz


#1. Do they seem like they don’t feel much emotion, including fear and sadness?

#2. Do they show little empathy when witnessing other people’s pain and may even make it clear they do not care how others feel?

#3. Do they seem like they act without considering consequences of their actions?

#4. Do they have no close bonds or relationships at all?

#5. Do they often push your boundaries and get angry and even violent when denied something they want?

#6. Do they seem cold-hearted or calculating?

#7. Do they often do things that leave you wondering if they feel any shame at all?


This quiz is for informational purposes only. It is not meant as a diagnostic or assessment tool.


The questions above represent common signs of psychopathy. If you answered yes to most of these questions, then your partner might be a psychopath.

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  • Portions of this article were adapted from the book Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-5-TR), © 2013 by American Psychiatric Association. All rights reserved.