You miss deadlines even though you care. You downplay your achievements. You procrastinate on tasks you’re fully capable of completing. You overthink simple emails or avoid asking for help. On the surface, it looks like lack of motivation — but beneath it, self-sabotage at work is often rooted in fear, shame, or self-protection. Breaking the […]
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You want to grow. You set the goal. You dream the dream. But just when things start to go well, you hesitate — or back out entirely. Maybe you procrastinate on something important, push away a healthy relationship, or convince yourself you’re not ready. You tell yourself you’re lazy or undisciplined. But the truth is
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You want closeness. You want trust. You want to feel safe and loved in your relationships — romantic, platonic, or family. But sometimes, without even realizing it, you may be doing things that push people away, build walls instead of bridges, or recreate old wounds you don’t yet know you’re carrying. Relationship sabotage isn’t always
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The “inner child” is the part of you that holds your earliest emotional experiences — your wonder, curiosity, playfulness, and also your unmet needs and wounds. When this part of you carries unresolved pain, it doesn’t just stay in the past. It quietly shapes how you think, love, react, and cope in the present. A
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Holding onto things beyond your control drains your energy and clouds your peace. Whether it’s past mistakes, other people’s actions, or unexpected life events, clinging to the unchangeable keeps you stuck in frustration, regret, or anger. Letting go isn’t about giving up—it’s about choosing freedom. You can’t rewrite the past or control others, but you
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The avoidance cycle is a self-reinforcing loop where you avoid something uncomfortable—like a thought, task, or emotion—and get short-term relief, but long-term anxiety or stress increases. Spotting this pattern in your daily life is the first step toward breaking it. What Is the Avoidance Cycle? The avoidance cycle is a pattern where a person avoids
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