Get the Entire Shop Bundle NOW before the price increase!

Best 145 One Sided Friendship Quotes

one Sided Friendship Quotes

This post contains some of the best one sided friendship quotes.

One Sided Friendship Quotes

1. “A betrayal in a friendship is a good opportunity to think about what qualities you wish in a friendship.” — Ashley Hudson

2. “A one-sided friendship brings exhaustion, and there’s no one deserves to be sucked dry.” — Euginia Herlihy

3. “A one-sided friendship is like having a car that only goes in one direction; eventually, it will drive itself away from you.” — Anonymous

4. “An honest answer is the sign of true friendship.” — E.W. Howe

5. “Any relationship (friend, romantic, or business) that’s one-sided isn’t one; it’s a one-way street headed in one direction, nowhere. — T.F. Hodge

6. “Ask me once, just once, say you want me back, you want to be my friend again. I’ll come running back to you.” – Unknown

7. “Be a better friend to yourself by refusing to settle for something that makes you feel any less worthy than you know you are.” —Lucy Smith

8. “Be very selective when it comes to choosing friends. People now a days don’t know the true meaning of friendship and loyalty.” – Unknown

9. “Being betrayed by a friend can leave you feeling doubtful of other friendships.” —Ashley Hudson

10. “Being the only one to try to maintain a friendship sucks and is exhausting.” — Jillian Baker

11. “But for the moment, I really just need some space.” — Margo T. Rose

12. “Choose people who choose you.” —Jay Shetty

13. “Could you be nostalgic for a friendship that wasn’t over yet, or did the fact that you were nostalgic mean that it already was?” — Brit Bennett

14. “Cultivation requires input from willing participants.” — T.F. Hodge

15. “Don’t ignore the effort of a person who tries to keep in touch, it’s not all the time someone cares.” – Unknown

16. “Everybody isn’t your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn’t mean they are your friend. People pretend well. At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people, so pay attention.” – Unknown

Related: Top 10 Signs A Narcissist Wants Your Attention

17. “Everyone has their own life, but what matters is whether or not they make time for you in theirs.” —Lucy Smith

18. “Fake friends are like shadows: always near you at your brightest moments, but nowhere to be seen at your darkest hour.” —Unknown

19. “Fake friends show their true colors when they don’t need you anymore.” —Unknown

20. “Forgive yourself for the blindness that let others betray you. Sometimes a good heart doesn’t see the bad.” —Unknown

21. “Friends are meant to support us, not drain us.” —Sarah Regan

22. “Friends are proved by adversity.” — Marcus Tullius Cicero

23. “Friendship between two women is always a plot against another one.” — Alphonse Karr

24. “Friendship is a relationship between two people who hold mutual affection for each other; friendly disposition or feeling for another; the bond of friends.” – Unknown

25. “Friendship is a two way street not a one way road.” – Unknown

26. “Friendship is a two-way street.” —Jillian Baker

27. “One-sided friendships can be built on foundations of loneliness, insecurity, and anxiety.” —Lucy Smith

28. “Friendship is everyday, not just when it’s convenient for you.” – Unknown

Related: How To Break Codependency Habits For Good? (+FREE Codependency Worksheets)

29. “Friendship is supposed to be a two-way street where both parties have equal rights and equal obligations” — Nato Lagidze

30. “Friendship is two-sided. It isn’t a friend just because someone’s doing something nice for you. That’s a nice person. There’s friendship when you do for each other. It’s like marriage – it’s two-sided.” – John Wooden

31. “Friendship isn’t about who you’ve known the longest. It’s about who came…stayed by your side, and never left you when you needed someone the most.” – Unknown

32. “Friendship isn’t about whom you have known the longest…it’s about who came, and never left your side.” – Unknown

33. “Friendships are not easy to maintain. They take trust and love. And nothing hurts more than losing a friend.” —Unknown

34. “Friendships should not be one-sided. Because one of the two people will be left feeling empty.” — Shanita Rogers

35. “Goodbye, old friend. I was bound to see your true colors sooner or later.” —Unknown

36. “Growing up means realizing a lot of your friends aren’t really your friends.” —Unknown

37. “I decided to put as much effort into contacting you as you do with me – that’s why we don’t talk anymore.” – Unknown

38. “I didn’t lose a friend. I just realized I never had one.” —Unknown

39. “I don’t hate you, I’m just disappointed that you turned into everything you said you’d never be.” —Unknown

40. “I‘m going back to my parrot head friends.” — Jimmy Buffett

41. “I’m controversial. My friends either dislike me or hate me.” — Oscar Levant

42. “I’m never shocked when people let me down nowadays. I just hate the fact that I put myself in a position to be put down in the first place.” —Unknown

43. “I’m not ignoring you, I’m waiting to see if you’ll make the effort for once.” – Unknown

44. “If a friendship is off-balance, one person takes up too much space, and the other person takes up too little.” — Perri O. Blumberg

Related: How To Overcome High Functioning Codependency?

45. “If a text conversation leaves you feeling frustrated and dissatisfied, it may be worth considering whether this friendship is fulfilling you or simply draining you.” —Perri O. Blumberg

46. “If one person doesn’t seem to care about the well-being of their friend, then they might as well be called a friend of convenience.” —Nato Lagidze

47. “If someone makes you feel drained and used, they’re not your friend.” —Sharonness

48. “If the feelings are mutual the effort will be equal.” – Steve Maraboli

49. “If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative! Know when to close the account.” — Christie Williams

50. “If you don’t feel obligated to say something brilliant or funny or surprising or cool. You can just be together. You can just be.” — Phyllis Reynolds Naylor

51. “If you have to constantly put in the effort to be friends with someone, that friendship isn’t worth it.” – Unknown

52. “It can be one of the hardest things in the world to lose your best friend.” —Unknown

53. “It doesn’t matter if it was a relationship or a friendship. When it ends, your heart breaks.” —Unknown

54. “It hurts to remember how close we were back then.” —Unknown

55. “It hurts when the person that made you feel special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today.” —Unknown

56. “It take two givers to keep a friendship strong. One sided friendship can’t last long. Be grateful for the true friends on the journey.” – Matt Brown

57. “It takes both sides to build a bridge.” —Fredrik Nael

58. “It takes two givers to keep a friendship strong. One-sided friendship can’t last long. Be grateful for the true friends on the journey.” — Matt Brown

Related: Top 10 Signs You’re Healing from Codependency

59. “It takes two people to start and maintain a friendship, but only one to end it.” —Mary Duenwald

60. “It took me way too long to realize that you shouldn’t be friends with people who never ask how you’re doing.” —Steve Maraholi

61. “It’s hard to tell who has your back from who has it long enough just to stab you in it.” —Nicole Richie

62. “It’s just that, you know how it is in some relationships, how one of them is a little more in love. Well, it’s like that with friendships.” — Andrew Sean Greer

63. “It’s really hard sometimes to say goodbye to a friend you love, especially if you’ve been friends for a long time.” —Lucy Smith

64. “It’s sad how you were such a big part of my life and now you’re just gone.” – Unknown

65. “Keep the ones that heard you when you never said a word.” – Unknown

66. “Keeping you close is some people’s way of preventing you from shining on your own.” —Lucy Smith

67. “Know the difference between those who stay to feed the soil, and those who come to grab the fruit.” —Unknown

68. “Life is kind of like a party. You invite a lot of people…a few who stay to help you clean up the mess…they are the only ones who matter.” – Unknown

69. “Losing a friend hurts, even when you chose to end it.” —Crystal Raypole

70. “Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.” – Oprah Winfrey

71. “Love is a two-way game. You cannot truly love one who does not love you, and neither can you force them to love you; better look past the hurtful deeds and search for the one who truly loves you, and that will be right with you.” — Auliq Ice

72. “Love those who will love you when you have nothing to offer but your company.” – Unknown

73. “My biggest mistake ever is thinking that people actually cared for me as much as I do for them, but in reality, it’s almost always one-sided.” —Unknown

74. “My head wanted to be alone, while my heart was begging for a friend.” – Unknown

75. “Never get too attached to anyone unless they also feel the same towards you, because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you.” – Unknown

76. “No breakup—even a nonromantic one—is easy.” —Sarah Regan

77. “No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other’s worth.” — Robert Southey

Related: Best 10 Overcoming Codependency Exercises

78. “No relationship in this world ever remains warm and close unless good effort is made on both sides to keep it so.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

79. “Not everyone deserves to be considered a friend.” —Perri O. Blumberg

80. “Not only one-sided love but one-sided friendships also do exists.” — Rupali Negi

81. “Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.” – Unknown

82. “Oh, I’m sorry. I forgot I only exist when you need something.” —Unknown

83. “Oh, you expected me to keep in contact with you, but not vice-versa? My bad, I forgot that’s how friendship worked.” – Unknown

84. “Once you end the friendship, you’ll need to stop reaching out.” —Crystal Raypole

85. “One of the most important aspects of friendship is trust and reliance.” —Lucy Smith

86. “One sad truth of life is that friendships don’t always thrive, no matter how much time, energy, and love you put into them.” —Crystal Raypole

87. “One sided friendship and two sided love… always gives you a lot of pain, nothing more than that!!!” – S. Pandey

88. “One sure way to lose another woman’s friendship is to try to improve her flower arrangements.” — Marcelene Cox

89. “One way to tell if you’re really comfortable with a person is if you can be quiet together sometimes and not feel awkward.” — Phyllis Reynolds Naylor

90. “One-sided friendship and two-sided love always give you a lot of pain, nothing more than that!” — S. Pandey

Related: Top 10 Signs of Codependency at Work

91. “One-sided friendships can be built on foundations of loneliness, insecurity, and anxiety.” — Lucy Smith

92. “One-sided friendships can leave you confused and hurt.” —Crystal Raypole

93. “One-sided friendships never last.” — Anonymous

94. “One-sided friendships take and never truly give.” —Perri O. Blumberg

95. “Our deepest fear is going space crazy through loneliness. The only thing that helps me keep my slender grip on reality is the friendship I have with my collection of singing potatoes.” — Holly

96. “People will hold your hand through the darkness but then let go when they find the light.” – Unknown

97. “Perhaps, that is the way of friends, to love one another for their imperfections, not despite them.” — Scott Wilbanks

98. “Remove yourself from one-sided friendships. Are there people in your life that love having you as their friend, but don’t necessarily show up as yours? Remember that it’s privilege for someone to hold space for you and be in your life. Remove anyone who isn’t appreciating and reciprocating love, support and friendship.” – Unknown

99. “Remove yourself from those one sided friendships where you are the only one putting in the effort.” – Unknown

100. “Selfish people tend to only be good to themselves… then they are surprised when they are alone.” —Unknown

101. “Simple things like cutting you off, blowing off what you have to say, talking over you, and so on, are all signs of a one-sided friendship.” — Sarah Regan

102. “Some friendships aren’t healthy from the beginning.” —Ashley Hudson

103. “Some of the most poisonous people come disguised as friends and family.” —Unknown

104. “Somebody asked me if I knew you. A million memories flashed through my mind, I smiled and said ‘I used to.’” —Unknown

Related: Codependency And Enmeshment: 9 Signs You May Be In An Enmeshed Relationship

105. “Sometimes one of them thinks they’re really close, closer than they are. And the other doesn’t feel that way.” — Andrew Sean Greer

106. “Sometimes people won’t understand how you feel until it happens to them, until they experience the pain.” – Brigitte Nicole

107. “Sometimes the person you’d take a bullet for is the person behind the trigger.” —Taylor Swift

108. “Sometimes we expect more from others because we would be willing to do that much for them.” – Unknown

109. “Sometimes you have to give up on people. Not because you don’t care, but because they don’t.” —Unknown

110. “Sometimes, your circle decreases in size, but increases in value.” — Anonymous

111. “Spend your time on those who love you unconditionally. Don’t waste it on those who only love you when the conditions are right for them.” —Unknown

112. “Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings, and emotions.” —Unknown

113. “Stop putting an effort into those who show no effort towards you. There’s only so much you can do before you’re wasting your energy and time.” – Unknown

114. “Taking friendships for granted is one of the surest ways of ending them. Unless nourished, they tend to wither and die.” — Alice Hegan Rice

115. “Thanks for saying you’ll always be there for me and then selectively deciding when to be there for me.” – Unknown

Related: Top 10 Codependent Friendship Signs

116. “The end of a friendship doesn’t mean one or both friends are bad people or bad friends… it simply means the relationship wasn’t working.” —Carly Breit

117. “The important thing to remember… is that one-sided friendships can be toxic, and once you recognize it, don’t feel guilty if you have to end it.” —Sarah Regan

118. “The loss of a friend is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired.” —Robert Southey

119. “The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment to absolutely and utterly walk away.” – Unknown

120. “The most called-upon prerequisite of a friend is an accessible ear.” — Maya Angelou

121. “The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained.” —Unknown

122. “The older we get, the more we need our friends—and the harder it is to keep them.” —Jennifer Senior

123. “The one-sided friendship – It was all the game of priority, it was an unbalanced friendship, were, it was you above everything for me, and, it was I below anything for you, and now we broke to the state, were, everything, anything and nothing sounded similar.” – Piyushkuhad

124. “The saddest thing about betrayal is it never comes from your enemies.” —Margaret Atwood

125. “The worst kind of pain is getting hurt by the person you explained your pain to.” —Unknown

126. “The worst solitude is to be destitute of sincere friendship” — Sir. Francis Bacon

127. “There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn’t jump a puddle for you.” —Unknown

128. “There’s friendship when you do for each other. It’s like marriage- it’s two-sided.” — John Wooden

Related: Top 10 Signs of Enmeshed Friendship

129. “These kinds of one-sided friendships can negatively impact your wellbeing because they are energy drains instead of energy sources.” —Perri O. Blumberg

130. “Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn’t stop for anybody”. — Stephen Chbosky

131. “Toxic friends don’t want what is best for you, so they’re not understanding or empathetic when you’re struggling.” —Perri O. Blumberg

132. “Trying to forget someone you loved is like trying to remember someone you never knew.” —Unknown

133. “Unless we earnestly desire its continuance, we should never start a friendship any more than we would a love affair.” — Alice Hegan Rice

134. “Watering artificial flowers will not make them grow. Stop pouring your energy into one-sided relationships.” — John Mark Green

135. “We live, in fact, in a world starved for solitude, silence, and private: and therefore starved for meditation and true friendship.” — C.S. Lewis

136. “What’s the point of having friends if you can’t trust them?” —Nato Lagidze

137. “When someone walks out of your life, let them. There’s no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren’t the one that gave up.” – Unknown

138. “When the universe gives you a crash course in vulnerability, you will discover how crucial and life-preserving good friendship is.” —Mary Duenwald

139. “When you finally realize that one-sided friendships are too draining and it may just be time to move along.” – Unknown

140. “When you quit texting people first, you realize who is making all the efforts.” —Unknown

141. “You always see those people that have been best friends for years and years, and it seems so effortless. That is something to strive for.” —Jillian Baker

142. “You can’t hang out with negative people and expect a positive life.” —Unknown

143. “You don’t lose friends because real friends can never be lost. You lose people masquerading as friends, and you’re better for it.”- Mandy Hale

144. “You likely feel tired being around this friend because all they do is talk about themselves; they’re using up your energy, and you feel tired and exhausted.” —Sarah Regan

145. “You shouldn’t be always available for someone who doesn’t even ask how you are doing.” – Unknown

Related: 6 Things Happen When a Codependent Leaves a Narcissist

toxic relationships worksheets

By Hadiah

Hadiah is a counselor who is passionate about supporting individuals on their journey towards mental well-being. Hadiah not only writes insightful articles on various mental health topics but also creates engaging and practical mental health worksheets.

Spread the love