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Perfectionism in Romantic Relationships How It Hurts Connection

Perfectionism in Romantic Relationships: How It Hurts Connection

In romantic relationships, perfectionism doesn’t always look like control—it often looks like tension, distance, and silent expectations. When one or both partners strive to be “perfect” or demand perfection from the other, connection becomes conditional. Instead of creating intimacy, perfectionism builds walls. Here’s how it silently erodes emotional closeness and trust in romantic relationships. Perfectionism […]

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Perfectionism at Work Why You Never Feel “Good Enough”

Perfectionism at Work: Why You Never Feel “Good Enough”

At work, perfectionism can feel like drive, dedication, or ambition—but underneath it is often a constant sense of never being enough. No matter how much you achieve, there’s always a lingering fear that you’re falling short, missing something, or one mistake away from being exposed. This cycle doesn’t just drain your energy—it erodes your confidence

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How to Recognize Perfectionist Thoughts in Real Time

How to Recognize Perfectionist Thoughts in Real Time

Perfectionist thoughts are sneaky. They often sound responsible, driven, or reasonable—but underneath, they carry pressure, fear, and self-criticism. Recognizing these thoughts in real time is the first step to breaking their hold. Once you can catch them, you can challenge them—and begin choosing gentler, more realistic beliefs. Here’s how to spot perfectionism as it happens.

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OCD vs. Perfectionism

OCD vs. Perfectionism

In this post, you’ll learn the difference between OCD and perfectionism. What Is OCD? According to the DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th Edition), OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) is a mental health disorder characterized by the presence of obsessions and/or compulsions that cause distress, consume a significant amount of time, and interfere with

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