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Top 21 Postpartum Quotes For Husband

Postpartum Quotes For Husband

This post contains some of the best postpartum quotes for husband.

Postpartum Quotes For Husband

1. “In the United States, the ratio of women to men suffering from depression is 2 to 1 (Keita, 2007). Regardless of who experienced the depression after the birth of their baby, both partners invariably suffer.” – Karen Kleiman

2. “Influential companies like Facebook and Microsoft have adopted parental-leave policies of up to four months, replacing the standard sixweek maternity leave for women and acknowledging the importance of partner leave.” – Kimberly Ann Johnson

3. “Depression sets the stage for many such paradoxes for any postpartum couple. It is precisely these paradoxes, fueled by depressive thinking, which can drive a wedge into the connection between the two of you. Self-doubt permeates the marital system after symptoms take hold.” – Karen Kleiman

4. “Although statistics vary, the worldwide estimate for the prevalence of  postpartum depression (PPD) ranges from 5% to 25% (Gaynes et al., 2005) and about 10% of men (Paulson & Bazemore, 2010).” – Karen Kleiman

5. “If you are the non-depressed partner, it will be helpful if you can remind your partner that they are not to blame and that the two of you are on the same team here, working on making things feel strong again.” – Karen Kleiman

6. “Even without depression, the postpartum period challenges each and any marriage with stressors of unprecedented proportion. You already know how sleep deprivation, unpredictability, idealistic expectations, and a new baby can combine in combustible fashion!” – Karen Kleiman

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7. “Postpartum couples crave and deserve relief. The birth of a baby is associated with some of life’s most poignant contradictions: joy and despair, pleasure and grief, elation and exhaustion, euphoria and anxiety. The impact of these incongruent states of emotions can wear heavily on the spirit of a marriage.” – Karen Kleiman

8. “No one will argue the point that postpartum couples need to take better care of themselves. For a period of time, postpartum couples understandably feel obliged to focus solely on the baby or how the baby is impacting their lives. It’s hard not to.” – Karen Kleiman

9. “Postpartum depression is very real and its impact on the family can be devastating.” – Karen Kleiman

10. “Sometimes, when ambivalence drops in on a marriage struggling to recover from postpartum depression, it can result from sheer exhaustion. It is no secret the sleep deprivation can be the greatest enemy of all. Working on the marriage can just feel like too much to do, with so much going on and so little energy to draw upon.” – Karen Kleiman

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11. “When depression unexpectedly inhabits a postpartum household, it does not discriminate. It oft en takes on a life of its own, affecting healthy marriages, marriages in trouble, new marriages, or long-term marriages. When the disturbance is severe, it can affect the way the couple views each other and themselves as a unit.” – Karen Kleiman

12. “Conflicting expectations are hard on husbands too. Even though cultural expectations now demand that fathers contribute more to home caring and child care, fathers still feel the burden (perhaps self-imposed, perhaps externally imposed) to be the primary breadwinner. These new fathers are thus often caught in the crosscurrents of conflicting norms—to be fully engaged at work and to be fully engaged at home.” – Sara E. Rosenquist

13. “Perhaps most astonishingly, some men experience a kind of pregnancy. Anthropologists long ago observed that in some (usually pre-industrialized) cultures, men exhibited symptoms of pregnancy when their wives were pregnant and sometimes even went through a false labor and mock delivery in a highly ritualized form.” – Sara E. Rosenquist

14. “The weight of postpartum depression unsettles the equilibrium of a marriage to say the least. Negotiations break down, dismantling all good intentions.” – Karen Kleiman

15. “Within the context of postpartum depression, some women respond to their husband’s depression with skepticism or impatience. Something like, Oh great, now I have to take care of YOU, too!” – Karen Kleiman

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16. “Fathers seem to have more tension and short-temperedness as the main symptoms of their PPD. Other feelings are confusion, fear, anger, frustration, and helplessness. Fathers with PPD are concerned about their partners, their disrupted family life, and their financial problems.” – Shoshana S. Bennett

17. “For a variety of reasons, a man experiences his partner’s pregnancy emotionally, and sometimes those emotions translate into physical symptoms. Not incidentally, men also experience the birth with a wide range of emotions and biological changes as well. However, we usually don’t hear much about these phenomena.” – Sara E. Rosenquist

18. “The early postpartum weeks and months divert couples away from themselves and invariably diminish the time they have for each other. More specifically, it diminishes the time a woman has for her partner, which can reduce his marital satisfaction.” – Karen Kleiman

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19. “Do poor marital relationships cause postpartum depression or does postpartum depression cause poor marital relationships? Both are true, depending on the circumstances, but there is no clear causal association that would hold true across the board.” – Karen Kleiman

20. “Even though it isn’t really a funny fact, many folks are surprised and sometimes humored that postpartum dads get depressed too.” – Shoshana S. Bennett

21. “The strongest predictor of whether a father will become depressed postpartum is the presence of PPD in the mother. The father whose partner has PPD has between a 24 to 50 percent chance of developing PPD symptoms.” – Shoshana S. Bennett

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