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How Avoidance Shows Up in Relationships (Without Realizing It)?

Avoidance in relationships doesn’t always look like running away—it often shows up in subtle, everyday behaviors. While these patterns may seem harmless or protective, they can quietly erode connection, trust, and emotional safety over time. Recognizing these signs is the first step to healthier, more honest relationships. What Is Relationship Avoidance? Relationship avoidance is a […]

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The Psychology Behind Doomscrolling

Anxiety / Hadiah

Doomscrolling is the act of continuously scrolling through negative news or distressing content online, often for long periods, even though it causes anxiety, sadness, or emotional exhaustion. It’s become increasingly common in the digital age — especially during times of crisis — and understanding the psychological forces behind it can help us break the cycle.

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How to Support a Loved One Who Struggles With Avoidance?

Avoidance / Hadiah

When someone you care about consistently withdraws, avoids hard conversations, or shuts down emotionally, it can be confusing and painful. But avoidance is often rooted in fear—not a lack of care. Supporting a loved one through avoidance requires patience, empathy, and gentle boundaries. Understanding What Avoidance Really Is Avoidance is more than just staying away

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Disorganised Attachment Style 7 Signs You Might Be Struggling Without Knowing It

Disorganised Attachment Style: 10 Signs You Might Be Struggling Without Knowing It

Attachment Styles / Hadiah

Disorganised attachment is often the most misunderstood style. It’s not just about fear of intimacy or independence—it’s the push-pull between wanting closeness and fearing it at the same time. This attachment style often develops from early relationships that were both a source of love and fear. If you have a disorganised attachment, you might not

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How to Talk to Loved Ones About Your Terminal Illness Diagnosis?

Cancer Mental Health / Hadiah

Telling someone you love that you have a terminal illness is one of the hardest conversations you’ll ever have. You may want to protect them. You may not know how to begin. You might feel responsible for their pain, even as you’re carrying your own. But sharing your truth doesn’t just open the door to

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10 Ways to Find Peace While Living With a Terminal Illness

Cancer Mental Health / Hadiah

Living with a terminal illness is a journey no one is ever fully prepared for. The body changes. Time feels different. Emotions come in waves—grief, fear, acceptance, even moments of joy. And yet, peace is still possible. Not the kind that denies the pain, but the kind that holds it gently. Peace doesn’t mean you

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