You want closeness. You want trust. You want to feel safe and loved in your relationships — romantic, platonic, or family. But sometimes, without even realizing it, you may be doing things that push people away, build walls instead of bridges, or recreate old wounds you don’t yet know you’re carrying. Relationship sabotage isn’t always […]
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The “inner child” is the part of you that holds your earliest emotional experiences — your wonder, curiosity, playfulness, and also your unmet needs and wounds. When this part of you carries unresolved pain, it doesn’t just stay in the past. It quietly shapes how you think, love, react, and cope in the present. A
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Holding onto things beyond your control drains your energy and clouds your peace. Whether it’s past mistakes, other people’s actions, or unexpected life events, clinging to the unchangeable keeps you stuck in frustration, regret, or anger. Letting go isn’t about giving up—it’s about choosing freedom. You can’t rewrite the past or control others, but you
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The avoidance cycle is a self-reinforcing loop where you avoid something uncomfortable—like a thought, task, or emotion—and get short-term relief, but long-term anxiety or stress increases. Spotting this pattern in your daily life is the first step toward breaking it. What Is the Avoidance Cycle? The avoidance cycle is a pattern where a person avoids
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When a relationship feels intense, passionate, and all-consuming, it’s easy to mistake that emotional charge for deep love. But not all strong connections are healthy. In fact, some of the most powerful emotional attachments are built not on love — but on survival. This is the nature of trauma bonding. Trauma bonding can mimic love
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Avoidance in relationships doesn’t always look like running away—it often shows up in subtle, everyday behaviors. While these patterns may seem harmless or protective, they can quietly erode connection, trust, and emotional safety over time. Recognizing these signs is the first step to healthier, more honest relationships. What Is Relationship Avoidance? Relationship avoidance is a
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