Best 10 Books For Couples

1. The Relationship Cure

By John Gottman

The book offers a powerful, simple five-step program, based on twenty years of innovative research, for greatly improving all of the relationships in your life—with spouses and lovers, children, siblings, and even your colleagues at work.

Dr. John M. Gottman:

– Reveals the key elements of healthy relationships, emphasizing the importance of what he calls “emotional connection”
– Introduces the powerful new concept of the emotional “bid,” the fundamental unit of emotional connection
– Provides remarkably empowering tools for improving the way you bid for emotional connection and how you respond to others’ bids
– And more!

2. The 5 Apology Languages

By Gary Chapman

In The 5 Apology Languages you will learn to:

• Express regret: “I’m sorry.”
• Accept responsibility: “I was wrong.”
• Make restitution: “How can I make it right?”
• Plan for change: “I’ll take steps to prevent a reoccurrence.”
• Request forgiveness: “Can you find it in your heart to . . . ?”

3. How to Be an Adult in Relationships

By David Richo

Adult love is based on a mutual commitment to what Richo calls the “five A’s”: attention, acceptance, appreciation, affection, and allowing.

This book will help you become more mindful in our relationships through practical exercises for couples and singles and heartening insights into a lifelong journey of love.

4. Love More, Fight Less

By Gina Senarighi PhD

In her book, Gottman-certified relationship coach Dr. Gina Senarighi offers tools and strategies to communicate effectively, rebuild trust, and repair past hurts.

Love More, Fight Less features:

• 30 COMMUNICATION SKILLS AND ACTIVITIES for building self-awareness, identifying and interrupting emotional reactivity, eliminating judgment, separating thoughts from feelings, and more
• 29 COMMON PITFALLS IN RELATIONSHIPS around issues of intimacy, career, finances, family and home matters, and friendships with other people–and how to navigate them
• STEP-BY-STEP GUIDANCE AND EXPERT INSIGHT to help you transform your relationship’s conflict patterns by integrating effective communication skills

5. Couples Therapy Workbook

By Kathleen Mates-Youngman

The Couples Therapy Workbook is a series of guided questions to promote meaningful couple conversations and build ongoing, connected communication.

The workbook is set in a weekly format over 30 days but can be tailored to any timeframe.

6. Couples Therapy Workbook for Healing

By Lori Cluff Schade PhD LMFT

The Couples Therapy Workbook for Healing is a helpful toolkit containing expert advice and activities to help both of you cultivate stronger attachment bonds and greater relationship satisfaction through Emotionally Focused Therapy.

7. 8-Week Couples Therapy Workbook

By Jill Squyres Groubert PhD

This workbook shows you how to work through conflict more effectively and respectfully, so you can create a healthy foundation of communication and enjoy each other even more.

The workbook contains:

• A guided format—Stay motivated with weekly advice and activities that are simple to do and easy to understand, on a manageable 8-week timeline.
• A holistic approach—Focus on a different theme each week: communication, intimacy, conflict, money matters, social styles, relationship patterns, values, and love languages.
• Proven strategies—Find tips and techniques written by an expert and rooted in real therapy treatments to repair and strengthen your relationship.

8. Questions for Couples Journal

By Maggie Reyes

This book of questions is full of insightful and revealing topics, so you and your partner can connect and have a blast discovering what makes each of you unique and a great match for each other.

Spark conversation and grow closer with these 400 questions for couples.

9. Quiz for Couples

By Jeffrey E. Peterson

This quiz book combines a variety of topics from the lightest and funniest to the most complex and challenging! It is an enjoyable pastime that will ignite deep conversations, insights, reasoning, and more detailed knowledge of your partner’s thinking.

This book consists of two types of questions:

* Open-ended questions that will highlight your likes and dislikes on different topics such as hobbies, food, entertainment, and personality.
* Fun dry-answer questions—specifically, you will have to answer these with the name of one of you.

10. The Couple’s Activity Book

By Crystal Schwanke

The Couple’s Activity Book can help you enhance your connection with playful, interactive games and activities.

The games in The Couple’s Activity Book range from fun fill-in-the-blanks and word scrambles to more involved activities, like themed date nights, DIY day spas, and becoming tourists in your own hometown. Some can be done spontaneously. Others need a little preparation for a truly special experience.